| Why if people want to be happy do they spend so much time worrying about the bad things that could happen?If people spent more time focusing on the good things they have in life they wouldn't be so insecure and unsure of how things are going to go.If I knew then what I know now I would never have screwed up my marriage by being an insecure a$$hole.I would have talked about things that bothered me more.I would have been calmer and more understanding.In a sense I would probably still be married to my ex-wife if I had the hindsight I have now.Gladly I'm not (It was hell, but I can't bitch about it.All I can say is that it was a learning experience for me) I learned how incompatible we were.If life is suppose to challenge you then why challenge your lover?Life is difficult enough without people making life harder for their spouses.If you have a life that makes you happy then enjoy it and quit trying to change the person you are with.The person they become will not be the person you fell in love with.If you love someone you accept them for the way they are.( Strengths and weaknesses) Granted we all have some stuff about ourselves that we would gladly change and some stuff that we really do need to change.I think that should be done when you are ready to make those changes.It won't work otherwise.Be good to your lover and remember you chose this person so don't try to change who they, change yourself...... |
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